I went out to a local store to get some Milk, Bread, and Lights Bulbs. Now this place isn't big, but not quite small either but for some reason I have the hardest time finding anything anytime I go in there. I found the milk pretty fast, and was looking for the Light Bulbs when passing by an idle I was looking down I saw this girl stocking items on the shelf. I went up to her and asked where the Bulbs where and she isle 10, and must have seen the look on my face from what I was thinking (which was, that wasn't very helpful since I didn't realize there were even #'s for the isles). So she said "let me just show you", to my surprise it was the next isle over that I didn't get to yet. I proceeded a follow up question with one that I really needed to know. I have a fan with really tiny light bulbs in it, and it also has the normal 60 watts in it, so I didn't know if I had to put those little ones back in, or since there were some of the 60 watts if it was fine or not. She tried to explain her thoughts and then decided we should go ask another worker an older guy. He said that it really depends on the watts that the fan takes... That wasn't helpful at all. But I needed to get some 75 watts anyway so I picked those up and then thanked the girl for her help.
I went up and down those stupid Isle's again, until I finally found the bread, alas no Wheat... So that same girl happened to be right near it, so I went to talk to her again. I was trying to find out when there delivery was and to make sure they sold wheat there. They do, but was out and she didn't know when the delivery was. But she said that I could go to the store on the corner they would prolly have plenty there (after I left that store I went there, and got my bread after waiting for like 10 minutes). But after she told me about that place, she proceeded to ask me If I was new to the area and where I lived, and told me of the Supermarket that was down the road and how to get there (I already shop there so I was just listening to her directions and what she had to say). Overall she was very nice, helpful, cute, and had plenty of opportunities to transition but for the life of me just couldn't think of anything other than what I was focused on at the time.
During the time we had spoke about the Light Bulbs she mentioned that if I had one of there cards (WTF is with every damn store and needing discount cards!) so I proceeded to the cashier w/o my lovely card. After which I asked the cashier if I could get one, she handed me a paper to fill out. During this time that girl I've been talking too came up to the cashier to get basket from her (She was on my side at the time). So I said "Wow your pretty busy" or some shit like that, I don't remember what she said, so I continued to fill out my paperwork. When I was done to my surprise that same girl was on the other side of the register taking the paperwork from me, and asked if I got the card yet. I said "No" and she handed me my card, I thanked her for all her help and proceeded to leave. She was a cashier too cause soon as I left she helped the next person.
6 Cute, No Kino (I pretty much forgot and remembered when it was almost over. I read somewhere that at that point it would have been weird to her.)
Saturday, April 26, 2008
Thursday, April 17, 2008
Smokers
There isn't anything more in this world that I hate than SMOKERS! I hate them with a passion if you don't like it fine that's your opinion I'm just expressing MINE. That's what this whole blogging thing is about, being about to shout off any fucking thing you want to. And although this seems to be completely unrelated to this topic, it is for 2 reasons:
1) It is definably not the kind of girl I want to get to know, sleep with, or let alone approach. Unfortunately for me, as I'm still learning I need to go up to these kinds of girls and for practice to get over my AA, So i will continue as I must for now.
2) I can officially and finally say that my one-itis is now completely over. As I write this I know that it's not just another day that I'm like just saying the words, I know this as a fact to be true now.
Let me shed you on some details, I am technically currently married and in the process of getting a divorce with my wife of 1 year. I found out yesterday from my in-laws that what she told me a few months was actually true. She did indeed start smoking, with as first I just didn't believe her when she told me as it's hard to see through this girls lies. But now with this new found information I can freely move on with my life w/o having any thoughts about her, aside from old memories which I'll have, but no longer will cherish. If fact is actually do a point right now where it disgusts me.
I have been wearing my old ring around my necklace, it wasn't just a wedding ring to me. It was "The One Ring" for those of you that know it's a replicate from the actually Lord of the Rings. It was a very nice ring, but over time it's gotten faded around the outside and you can't even read the elvish inscriptions. But at this point, I'm taking it off my necklace as I don't want to be reminded about this girl any longer whenever I can help it. I'm going to (when not being lazy) to move any pictures I have from her on my phone off and save them in a file somewhere in my computer labeled "Do Not Open".
The reasoning behind me saving them, is partially because I'm a pack rat, but also I don't pretend to acknowledge the past, but I don't need to be seeing it everyday either.
Update: 5-5-08
Even thought my one-itis I believe to still be gone, I still have thoughts about her, and have emotions run wild every so often (Recently that is).
Update: 5-26-08
In this particular case I think that I will have one-itis for a long time, and will continue to battle with this. It came to a point a few days ago where this fact wasn't even a factor in my decision making anymore. So with that said I can only be sure of how I felt at the time of this post and should not have any connection with how I may or may not feel about her in the future.
1) It is definably not the kind of girl I want to get to know, sleep with, or let alone approach. Unfortunately for me, as I'm still learning I need to go up to these kinds of girls and for practice to get over my AA, So i will continue as I must for now.
2) I can officially and finally say that my one-itis is now completely over. As I write this I know that it's not just another day that I'm like just saying the words, I know this as a fact to be true now.
Let me shed you on some details, I am technically currently married and in the process of getting a divorce with my wife of 1 year. I found out yesterday from my in-laws that what she told me a few months was actually true. She did indeed start smoking, with as first I just didn't believe her when she told me as it's hard to see through this girls lies. But now with this new found information I can freely move on with my life w/o having any thoughts about her, aside from old memories which I'll have, but no longer will cherish. If fact is actually do a point right now where it disgusts me.
I have been wearing my old ring around my necklace, it wasn't just a wedding ring to me. It was "The One Ring" for those of you that know it's a replicate from the actually Lord of the Rings. It was a very nice ring, but over time it's gotten faded around the outside and you can't even read the elvish inscriptions. But at this point, I'm taking it off my necklace as I don't want to be reminded about this girl any longer whenever I can help it. I'm going to (when not being lazy) to move any pictures I have from her on my phone off and save them in a file somewhere in my computer labeled "Do Not Open".
The reasoning behind me saving them, is partially because I'm a pack rat, but also I don't pretend to acknowledge the past, but I don't need to be seeing it everyday either.
Update: 5-5-08
Even thought my one-itis I believe to still be gone, I still have thoughts about her, and have emotions run wild every so often (Recently that is).
Update: 5-26-08
In this particular case I think that I will have one-itis for a long time, and will continue to battle with this. It came to a point a few days ago where this fact wasn't even a factor in my decision making anymore. So with that said I can only be sure of how I felt at the time of this post and should not have any connection with how I may or may not feel about her in the future.
Sunday, April 13, 2008
Dr. Phil Episode
My thoughts on the show by Dr. Phil titled "Women Beware"
I think first off that they shouldn't have gone on Dr. Phil. Secondly Ross Jeffries is an even bigger asshole and liar than I knew he was just from reading about him and what he teaches in the "The Game". He only did and said those things as an attempt to get back at and try to shut down Mystery and the other schools. Overall I don't think it went well for US in the community as this has perhaps given them a little bit of edge of what to expect, enough this is already public knowledge. Some people have made good points on this topic about it not really effecting us because most people that watch Dr. Phil are soccer mom's and shit. Ok first off girls talk, plain and simple. Sure it may be mom's but they have daughter's, friend's, co-workers... Point being this should not be taken lightly in my opinion.
Also I would like to point out this link, that Started on 10-19-2006:
http://attraction-chronicles.blogspot.com/2006/10/breaking-news-pua-piece-on-dr-phil_19.html
Now it just aired only 2 days ago 4-11-2008, thats been plenty of time for the Dr. Phil show to do plenty of editing and such to make this out as a bad thing, and just up his damn ratings. So for that it makes me wonder how shady Dr. Phil really is, I don't like him, Never have, and probably never will.
I think this topic has already been talked about to death in the past 2 days so, Just my 2 cents...
I think first off that they shouldn't have gone on Dr. Phil. Secondly Ross Jeffries is an even bigger asshole and liar than I knew he was just from reading about him and what he teaches in the "The Game". He only did and said those things as an attempt to get back at and try to shut down Mystery and the other schools. Overall I don't think it went well for US in the community as this has perhaps given them a little bit of edge of what to expect, enough this is already public knowledge. Some people have made good points on this topic about it not really effecting us because most people that watch Dr. Phil are soccer mom's and shit. Ok first off girls talk, plain and simple. Sure it may be mom's but they have daughter's, friend's, co-workers... Point being this should not be taken lightly in my opinion.
Also I would like to point out this link, that Started on 10-19-2006:
http://attraction-chronicles.blogspot.com/2006/10/breaking-news-pua-piece-on-dr-phil_19.html
Now it just aired only 2 days ago 4-11-2008, thats been plenty of time for the Dr. Phil show to do plenty of editing and such to make this out as a bad thing, and just up his damn ratings. So for that it makes me wonder how shady Dr. Phil really is, I don't like him, Never have, and probably never will.
I think this topic has already been talked about to death in the past 2 days so, Just my 2 cents...
Saturday, April 12, 2008
Hired Gun - Cream Lady
Now you would think that I learned my lesson from the Corn muffin incident...
Note: I spoke with Yummy already and we already went over in detail how I fucked this up from the start.
I was in the mall yesterday looking for the eye glass place, when this HOT Latin girl prolly late 20's comes up to me and calls out "Excuse me, Sir". Now at first I didn't realize she was a sales person until about 10 seconds in. So she's talking to me asking my nationality, and then at some point asked me if i was lazy. I said "ya, kinda why?" she pointed to my face, and said I can tell you don't use any treatments or anything (I believe I have a very pimply face although 99% of ppl, family and friends will disagree). So she asked me to give her my hand and she put a bit of this brown creamy stuff on me and asked to rub with one finger, as I'm doing this she is talking to me litterly an inch away from kissing me with each of our eyes in deep contact. Explaining the product, what it is, how it will help, blah blah blah. She gets done with the example on my hand and shows me the difference, note that this whole time we are both using lots of kino. So anyway $54 later I buy this cream because I felt that I could really use it, I still do (but thats besides the point, apparently). But before I leave and after I pay she's trying to sell me some other shit too, I just said no thank you i think I'll just try this one out on it's on to see if i can tell a difference. And just before I left she opened her arms and we hugged. But in my head through out I was trying to figure out anything to say to her outta this damn sales pitch. But I couldn't think of anything...
God how she had me in her spell.... it was fucking ridiculous. I was wrapped around every single fucking finger of hers. Did I mention she was fucking HOT (least a 9 on my scale). At one point I mentioned that she was very good at this.
Note: I spoke with Yummy already and we already went over in detail how I fucked this up from the start.
I was in the mall yesterday looking for the eye glass place, when this HOT Latin girl prolly late 20's comes up to me and calls out "Excuse me, Sir". Now at first I didn't realize she was a sales person until about 10 seconds in. So she's talking to me asking my nationality, and then at some point asked me if i was lazy. I said "ya, kinda why?" she pointed to my face, and said I can tell you don't use any treatments or anything (I believe I have a very pimply face although 99% of ppl, family and friends will disagree). So she asked me to give her my hand and she put a bit of this brown creamy stuff on me and asked to rub with one finger, as I'm doing this she is talking to me litterly an inch away from kissing me with each of our eyes in deep contact. Explaining the product, what it is, how it will help, blah blah blah. She gets done with the example on my hand and shows me the difference, note that this whole time we are both using lots of kino. So anyway $54 later I buy this cream because I felt that I could really use it, I still do (but thats besides the point, apparently). But before I leave and after I pay she's trying to sell me some other shit too, I just said no thank you i think I'll just try this one out on it's on to see if i can tell a difference. And just before I left she opened her arms and we hugged. But in my head through out I was trying to figure out anything to say to her outta this damn sales pitch. But I couldn't think of anything...
God how she had me in her spell.... it was fucking ridiculous. I was wrapped around every single fucking finger of hers. Did I mention she was fucking HOT (least a 9 on my scale). At one point I mentioned that she was very good at this.
Hired Gun - Bakery Stocker
This also happened a few days ago while I was shopping for food but not the same day as the last one.
I was just looking for some water, and I passed by this really pretty chick stocking bakery items on the table with like muffins and shit. I didn't say anything and knew i fucked up and hoped I would catch her on the way back but still said nothing (damn you AA). So i continued shopping and was on my way to the cashier and she was still stocking pastries so I said I'm going to approach her. As I was headed that way she walked away into the bakery section. I knew somehow that she was going to come back out with more to stock, so i kinda hung around looking over the muffins and shit and waited. She came out just a minute later with an armful of diff kinds of muffins, I said "Hi, with a smile" she said "Hi" back, and I asked "So do you have any Corn Muffins" as I didn't see any from when i looked around and there like my favorite. She said "Ya we should", came over to the side I wasn't looking at and pulled some out and handed it to me. Now I know I should have said something else but all I could get out was "Thanks" and put the muffins in my shopping cart and proceeded to the register. Now I have already been yelled at from Yummy about this, but i just couldn't put back those muffins. I just bought them as I felt that if I took them out and put them on the magazines or something that girl would know and be mad at me cause she would have to put them back, and know that I didn't really want them. So i enjoyed my delicious muffins when i got home.
I was just looking for some water, and I passed by this really pretty chick stocking bakery items on the table with like muffins and shit. I didn't say anything and knew i fucked up and hoped I would catch her on the way back but still said nothing (damn you AA). So i continued shopping and was on my way to the cashier and she was still stocking pastries so I said I'm going to approach her. As I was headed that way she walked away into the bakery section. I knew somehow that she was going to come back out with more to stock, so i kinda hung around looking over the muffins and shit and waited. She came out just a minute later with an armful of diff kinds of muffins, I said "Hi, with a smile" she said "Hi" back, and I asked "So do you have any Corn Muffins" as I didn't see any from when i looked around and there like my favorite. She said "Ya we should", came over to the side I wasn't looking at and pulled some out and handed it to me. Now I know I should have said something else but all I could get out was "Thanks" and put the muffins in my shopping cart and proceeded to the register. Now I have already been yelled at from Yummy about this, but i just couldn't put back those muffins. I just bought them as I felt that if I took them out and put them on the magazines or something that girl would know and be mad at me cause she would have to put them back, and know that I didn't really want them. So i enjoyed my delicious muffins when i got home.
Hired Gun - Cashier
This was a few days ago when I was shopping for food, and I thought I would share it.
I saw a cute register girl and decided that I was going to go to her and hopefully say at the very least Hi. Well i got an opportunity as I was standing in line for a situational opener. Her manager or someone was at her register and they were fiddling with paper on her receipt area. So I said something on these lines of "So did you break your register?" with a big smile (at least i think it was big, i can't see my self :P) She laughed and said "No, I just needed to have my paper changed"
At this point I should have moved onto a transition question of some sort.... except i couldn't think of anything except "so are they hiring here", but I didn't even say that as I didn't want to know, and I thought it was lame, plus I was hoping that something else was going to pop into my small little head. Alas nothing so i just stood there waiting my turn awkwardly (as there was 1 other person ahead of me that the cashier was helping).
Then as it was finally my turn all I could get out was Hi. She asked me if I had a card, I said "No, would it have saved me some $?" She said yes, then I said something on the lines of "Oh well, I guess I'll have to get one of those neat little things seeing how I'll be shopping here often". I finished my transaction and before I left I just asked here where I get one of those cards at.
She was about a 6 on my scale (cute) Yet I still had a bit of trouble... any ideas what I could have said to her? or done differently? Any advice at all is helpful.
I saw a cute register girl and decided that I was going to go to her and hopefully say at the very least Hi. Well i got an opportunity as I was standing in line for a situational opener. Her manager or someone was at her register and they were fiddling with paper on her receipt area. So I said something on these lines of "So did you break your register?" with a big smile (at least i think it was big, i can't see my self :P) She laughed and said "No, I just needed to have my paper changed"
At this point I should have moved onto a transition question of some sort.... except i couldn't think of anything except "so are they hiring here", but I didn't even say that as I didn't want to know, and I thought it was lame, plus I was hoping that something else was going to pop into my small little head. Alas nothing so i just stood there waiting my turn awkwardly (as there was 1 other person ahead of me that the cashier was helping).
Then as it was finally my turn all I could get out was Hi. She asked me if I had a
She was about a 6 on my scale (cute) Yet I still had a bit of trouble... any ideas what I could have said to her? or done differently? Any advice at all is helpful.
Intro
I'm new to the game, and just wanted to let anyone know where i'm at so far. I was introduced by my friend YummyStaleBread, about 2 weeks now. I read "The Game" within my first week, and have started reading "The Mystery Method". I attended my first seminar in New York City the other day (4-10-08) on Approach Anxiety and Transitions hosted by Eric "Disco", and Glen Jason. Everything went very well, I learned a lot, and immediately after it ended on my way home I approached 3 Girls.
Note: I'm very shy and just coming out of my shell, slowly... but I know that it will just take time, and already I've made vast improvements over these past couple of weeks.
1st Girl
Very pretty Latin chick, was passing me and I said "Hi". She continued down the hallway and stopped at the water fountain and new that I was going to have a another shot because she was going to pass back by me. When she did I asked her for the time, she just said she didn't know and was sorry but she seemed like she was in a rush and kinda left.
2nd Girl
Pretty much about 3 minutes right after the first one, I noticed a cute black girl but she ran into the bathroom that I was sitting outside of while waiting for Yummy. I waited until she came out to make my move. Soon as she came out (who also seemed to be a rush), I said "Hi, do you happen to have the time" She kinda started to look at her phone and said it's like 10, I responded with "Hey thats what I got", but instead of her laughing or anything she just said "When then why are asking me?" I responded with "I was just trying to start a conversation". She said something like "oh ok", and then continued to walk back the way she was headed to in a rush.
3rd Girl
I was on the ferry almost getting home and there was this kinda loud girl talking on the phone, and she made her way to the ledge outside, which I was near. After a little while I leaned over on the rail next to her and gazed out into the ocean and lit up city, as I was waiting my chance for her to get to off the phone. When she finally got off she was fiddling with her phone over the ledge. I said "Be careful, you don't want to drop it" her response that she gave with a who the fuck are you look to be telling me what to do "I think I'll be fine", immediately I knew i fucked it up but tried to work a bit, so I responded right away with, "It's beautiful, the city isn't it?". She just said "ya it is", and turned her back to me still leaning on the rail next to me. Now at this point I should have just left but I thought I could and should still say something, while thinking we were coming up to the statue of liberty. So i tapped her on the shoulder and said "Have you ever been there?" She said something on the lines of "Ya, like once a week" So I asked if she worked there, I can't really exactly what she said but I'm sure it was "kinda", she then proceeded to turn her back again to me. I bailed out after that saying it's a bit too cold out here for me (seeing how I had a T-Shirt on with no jacket, I need to buy a cool jacket).
Feel free to add comments and suggestions. I already got advice from Yummy saying that I insulted Girl 3 from the start and thats where I fucked up. Now that I look back on it, I kinda did very unintended.
Note: I'm very shy and just coming out of my shell, slowly... but I know that it will just take time, and already I've made vast improvements over these past couple of weeks.
1st Girl
Very pretty Latin chick, was passing me and I said "Hi". She continued down the hallway and stopped at the water fountain and new that I was going to have a another shot because she was going to pass back by me. When she did I asked her for the time, she just said she didn't know and was sorry but she seemed like she was in a rush and kinda left.
2nd Girl
Pretty much about 3 minutes right after the first one, I noticed a cute black girl but she ran into the bathroom that I was sitting outside of while waiting for Yummy. I waited until she came out to make my move. Soon as she came out (who also seemed to be a rush), I said "Hi, do you happen to have the time" She kinda started to look at her phone and said it's like 10, I responded with "Hey thats what I got", but instead of her laughing or anything she just said "When then why are asking me?" I responded with "I was just trying to start a conversation". She said something like "oh ok", and then continued to walk back the way she was headed to in a rush.
3rd Girl
I was on the ferry almost getting home and there was this kinda loud girl talking on the phone, and she made her way to the ledge outside, which I was near. After a little while I leaned over on the rail next to her and gazed out into the ocean and lit up city, as I was waiting my chance for her to get to off the phone. When she finally got off she was fiddling with her phone over the ledge. I said "Be careful, you don't want to drop it" her response that she gave with a who the fuck are you look to be telling me what to do "I think I'll be fine", immediately I knew i fucked it up but tried to work a bit, so I responded right away with, "It's beautiful, the city isn't it?". She just said "ya it is", and turned her back to me still leaning on the rail next to me. Now at this point I should have just left but I thought I could and should still say something, while thinking we were coming up to the statue of liberty. So i tapped her on the shoulder and said "Have you ever been there?" She said something on the lines of "Ya, like once a week" So I asked if she worked there, I can't really exactly what she said but I'm sure it was "kinda", she then proceeded to turn her back again to me. I bailed out after that saying it's a bit too cold out here for me (seeing how I had a T-Shirt on with no jacket, I need to buy a cool jacket).
Feel free to add comments and suggestions. I already got advice from Yummy saying that I insulted Girl 3 from the start and thats where I fucked up. Now that I look back on it, I kinda did very unintended.
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